It feels like society keeps promoting sexual openness, but I just can’t accept it. So I wonder—does being in love or having a romantic relationship have to involve sex? If I can’t accept it, does that mean I’m destined to stay single?
You’re not alone in feeling this way. Many people have similar doubts and values.

At the core, not accepting something is often just the surface of a deeper issue.

Why do you feel this way? Have you explored the reasons? Before rushing into a relationship, your physical and emotional well-being matter most.

Many believe sex is a “must” in romantic relationships—but in reality, everyone has different needs and definitions of intimacy. Your discomfort might stem from how you were raised, your values, past trauma, or simply your personality. There’s no right or wrong here—it’s just part of who you are. Don’t doubt yourself just because your views differ from the norm. And never force yourself to do something that feels wrong just to meet others’ expectations.

Love isn’t a game with fixed rules or deadlines. Sex can be one way to express closeness, but it’s not the only way. Emotional connection, trust, companionship, and mutual support are just as important. You deserve the time and space to find someone who truly respects you and is willing to grow with you at your own pace. That person won’t pressure you but will listen, care, and create a space where you feel safe and valued.

Most importantly, be brave enough to express your boundaries. Don’t suppress your true feelings for fear of rejection. A healthy relationship is built on mutual respect—not on sacrificing yourself to please someone else.

So, don’t rush to doubt your worth. Not wanting sex doesn’t make you unlovable. It just means you need to be seen and understood more deeply. And yes—you are absolutely worthy of that kind of love.