In real life, some people do resist using sex toys with their partners. This often stems from cultural or psychological reasons:

They simply find no interest or fun in sex and aren’t willing to explore new pleasures.

They don’t really care about their partner’s sexual enjoyment or don’t accept that their partner can derive pleasure through toys.

Their pride gets in the way—they see toys as a “third party” and worry it threatens their own abilities or status.

To address these concerns, you can:

Share educational articles or videos. Introduce toys through third-party science-based info—what kinds are available, how they work, and what fun they can bring. This helps open a bridge for communication and shows that toys can add a lot of joy to sex.

Explain your own sources of pleasure clearly. Help your partner understand that toys can significantly enhance your sexual experience—especially if they aren’t great at foreplay. If they care about your feelings, they’ll likely come around gradually.

Ease their worries by emphasizing that toys are just aids—they can’t replace emotional connection. Even when using toys, you still deeply value the kissing, touching, and intimacy you share.