Porn-Style Squirting
When people think of squirting, they often picture the dramatic gushes of fluid shown in porn. However, this phenomenon is actually a combination of orgasm and urinary incontinence. Due to physiological differences, this happens differently in men and women. Men, when fully erect, rarely release urine during sex and usually don’t experience urinary leakage. Women, on the other hand, may still be able to urinate when sexually aroused—and sometimes experience urinary leakage.

So, for most women, porn-style squirting is not a common physiological event. If you want to try it, drinking plenty of water beforehand to fill the bladder can help produce this effect after sufficient sexual stimulation.

Typical Squirting
Typical squirting feels like a small release of fluid that resembles the sensation of needing to urinate (but it’s not urine—it comes from the Skene’s glands). This usually happens when a woman is focused and fully immersed in sexual pleasure, without distraction or worry about leaking.

To explore squirting, it’s helpful to lay down a waterproof sheet for easy cleanup afterward. Stimulate the area around the clitoral glans and urethral opening—either alternating or simultaneously—and explore the G-spot area as well. Stimulating the Skene’s glands along the urethra can make squirting easier to achieve!