If you still love your partner and are willing to work on the relationship, don’t give up just yet. Try sharing or watching sex education videos or reading well-researched books on intimacy together. Learn about each other’s bodies, how arousal works, and why foreplay plays such a key role in a pleasurable sexual experience.

The truth is, many people have been misled by porn and end up with unrealistic or inaccurate ideas about sex. That’s why your guidance matters. Don’t forget—sex is a shared experience. Both partners have equal say and equal responsibility. You’re allowed to speak up and help shape what good sex looks like for you both.

Also, remember: no one is born a sex expert. Great sex isn’t automatic—it’s something you learn, practice, and communicate about, again and again. The best experiences come from open, shame-free conversations and mutual exploration.

So to sum it up: learn + talk = win.
Ladies, it’s time to reclaim your power in the bedroom. Use your knowledge and charm to lead the way—lovingly, but confidently.